Do You Vine?

Thursday, May 23, 2013


They say a picture is worth a thousand words which means a video must be worth a thousand pictures. Video for blogging is a concept I love,but the execution has always been so high maintenance and time consuming...not something a stay-at-home mom of three really has time to figure out.
Enter: VINE--short, bursty video presentations only six seconds long. It's like Instagram on steroids!
This app for iPhone is genius and practically eliminates the need for any editing and composition skills. Plus, it's easily sharable to Twitter and Facebook so my friends can see not only pictures of my latest DIY project, they can watch the progression as well. It's also really fun to see my favorite bloggers in real time when they post events from their day.

These are a few of my recent Vines where I share personal moments as well as sneak peaks into my DIY projects long before they go live on the blog.



Look for this tutorial to be posted on the blog soon!


So do you?  Vine, I mean.
Leave your username in the comments so I can be amazed at how you convey your ideas in six seconds or look me up on Vine.
Username: Kristina J.

Vera Bradley Bag Giveaway

Tuesday, May 21, 2013


via The Chic Girl's Guide to a One-of-a-Kind Wardrobe

No one tells you when you sign a book contract that you'll be expected to become a promotions expert, a salesman, a publicist and a marketing director. It's a lot to take in...especially for a girl who prefers to stay behind the scenes, but I hope to make the promotion of my upcoming book (for which I'm contractually responsible) as organic as it can be.

The Chic Girl's Guide is a natural extension of the Kristina J. blog, so in keeping with the spirit of DIY style and fashion, I'll be hosting several giveaways this summer leading up to the release date on August 13. The book is officially available on amazon.com so look for future giveaways based on pre-order as well.

This week's giveaway is an adorably colorful Vera Bradley bag perfect for upcoming summer events!

To qualify for the drawing add The Chic Girl's Guide to your "Want to Read" list on Goodreads (if you'd share to Facebook that'd be AWESOME of you!).

Confirm your entry be leaving your contact email here on this post.


The winner will be announced June 2. 

How to Make a Tuxedo Skirt

Sunday, May 19, 2013


The grosgrain ribbon can be as wide or narrow as you want. I used 2.5 inch wide ribbon for this project. A wider ribbon would make your tuxedo strip more visible from the front or back. 

The Chic Girl's Guide Back Cover Reveal

Thursday, May 16, 2013


Today was a great day. The back cover for The Chic Girl's Guide has been finalized and the book has gone to publication which brings it one step closer to the release on August 13. Also, my editor informed me that the book is now available for pre-order on Amazon for a discounted cost! So many good things all at once. Like I said...GREAT day.  


I've been receiving updates from the book designer on layouts and design, like this chapter introduction collage, and it's been awesome to watch the experts do their stuff and bring all the projects together into a book format. I love that the book will also be available in e-book format.
Everyone at Cedar Fort Publishing has blown me way with their professionalism and for a newbie in the book industry, their patience and experience has made the entire process completely enjoyable.
I guess now would be the perfect time to thank the beautiful girls who modeled for the The Chic Girl's Guide. (You make my book look purdy!)

5 Steps To Defined Curls for Curly Hair

Wednesday, May 15, 2013


Frizzy hair--it is what it is. 
Frustrating. Annoying. Unmanageable and unruly.
Except when it isn't. 
I've been through every curly hair stage you can possibly imagine. I treated it the same as you would glossy, straight hair for years before I realized I probably should NOT brush it out dry...before I discovered what a world of difference a dab of mousse could make. 
I tried to deny it's existence along every other curly girl in the early 1990's. I've worn it so crunchy with product you could hear it crackle if you touched it. But all that came before I learned how absolutely fun and low-maintenance a head full of curls could make a girl's life.
I'm not one to mourn about how much I wish I had straight hair. I don't. But take it from me--great curls don't just happen (and I've got the bad yearbook pictures to prove it).
This is the regimen that works for me.

Oh. And one more thing. This only works on curly hair. I'm pretty sure you won't get the same results with beautiful, stick-straight hair...unless you get happy with a curling iron. HA.


I'm cheap, I know. But I use the generic brands for these products from Sally's Beauty Supply and whatever shampoo and conditioner left in the shower that my kids haven't emptied into the bath to create bubbles. 


Step 1: Start with clean, towel-dried hair. Another (not so little) idiosyncracy about my hair is that it's really, really dry. I've probably had greasy hair syndrome like, twice in my life. Shampooing really dries out the hair, so I only shampoo once a week. The rest of the week, I'll only use a conditioner.


Step 2: Apply the gel into hair. I sorta press the product into my hair as opposed to full-on scrunching.  Focus on getting product on the roots since that's where you get the lift. I love the Biolage Gelee product because it makes curls smooth but doesn't leave my hair sticky. 


Step 3:  Lightly coat all layers of hair with Paul Mitchell Freeze and Shine spray--not just the top. You don't want the bottom layer to look limp.  Let air dry for 10 -15 minutes.


Step 4:  Use a hair dryer with a diffuser until hair is almost dry. I always use the cold air for a minute or two towards the end to reduce frizz and set curls. They should be soft to the touch, though maybe not as bouncy as they will be once completely dry.

Secret Tip: If you have air vents in your home, crank the heat up a bit and lie so your hair is spread out over the vent. You'll get the biggest and best curls ever by doing this. The power of all that diffused air makes my curls turn crazy awesome. I only use my hair dryer if it's absolutely too hot to turn on the heat for a few minutes. I promise, it works. Best curly girl secret...until now. 


Step 5:  When hair is completely dry, use your fingers to gently separate the curls and get a fuller look so they aren't matted together. Spray another light layer of Paul Mitchell Freeze and Shine to hold. Enjoy the uniqueness that is you!



For more inspiration on how to manage your curls, check out this great book titled Curly Girl.

How To Make Beaded Sandals

Sunday, May 12, 2013


There's something about beading on an otherwise comfy pair of sandals that lies outside ordinary-all-day-comfort usually associated with flat t-straps. You can use tonal colors like I did here or create a fun and summery look by choosing brightly colored beads. Use a variation of clear and opaque beads for the most multi-dimensional effect. 
There's really no wrong way to do this. Just go get your shine on. 

Thoughts On My Greatest Inadequacy

Thursday, May 9, 2013

LOFT Dress |  Aeropostale Jacket |  Nine West Wedges |  La Mer Watch |  FOSSIL bag


There isn't much that can make me feel inadequate. 
Yeah, there's that geometry thing, and the confidence thing, and then the whole manage-the-household-and-do-the-laundry-while-planning-balanced-meals-and-cooking-every-day thing. 
But really, nothing makes me feel inadequate quite like the responsibility of being a mom to these three human lives...these little souls who look to me with complete trust to make the most basic decisions for them. 
I wonder that I'll be able to teach them how to have meaningful conversation, how to speak truth without bullying and help them discover their skill-set.
How do I help them to become and emerge and transcend....when I'm trying to do those very things myself? A mother's dream that she will one day be humbled by the feats of her children--that by lifting them on her shoulders to learn from her mistakes and triumphs they can reach beyond her to accomplish more extravagant deeds.

It seems to me on Mother's Day I should be giving them gifts that show how crazy blessed I feel to be a part of their lives....little tokens of praise that say thanks for stickin' with me through my bumbling attempts to get this right.
Because I really do want to get it right.


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